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Are you bored without me

Every man, especially a man who has been married and has become a family, always has XINGX bad habits. For example, when you enter the house, you don’t know how to change your shoes, brush your teeth and squeeze toothpaste, and wash your face with towels; You don’t know how to change socks, don’t wash clothes, throw things casually, etc. Finally, let him cook a meal for you. The stove is not cleaned, the chopping board is not cleaned, the cooking is not washed, the garbage is full of the floor, and shovel is thrown at will, etc. In a word, as long as he goes to the kitchen, it must be a mess. The time it takes to clean the battlefield for him must be more than cooking. The key is that most men often say that they commit repeated crimes and do not change after repeated teaching. When the days are long, those who become wives will inevitably say two more words, once, twice, three times and four times. When the days are long, they will end up with a woman nagging and troublesome. If you don’t believe that you ask a married man, nine times out of ten are the nagging of your own woman. Think about it for a woman. If you have been living in such an environment all the time: your front feet have just been cleaned up, and his back feet throw you a lot, once, twice, three times, four times, it is said repeatedly that Guanyin Bodhisattva will also be annoyed, let alone all women and vulgar women who are wives. Especially for modern women, work is the same as men, the burden is the same as men, and the work is busy at home. Work can’t help yourself, and family affairs don’t make people worry. Do you think it’s possible to be upset or not? Family conflicts, nine times out of ten, are all trivial things that are not worth mentioning in the eyes of big men, but women are broken their brains. Like most families, our family is often troubled by such things. Occasionally, I saw Zhang Xiaoxian’s “You are not bored without me”, which was to the effect that husbands should not always think of their wives nagging or their wives annoying. If there is no wife nagging their wives, life will lose fun. Feelings, writers and celebrities are just like my ordinary woman, and they also have the same troubles as me! I hurriedly showed it to my husband. Originally, I wanted him to understand more about the difficulty of being a woman and regret his bad deeds. I didn’t think that my husband had any shame after seeing it, on the contrary, it has intensified: I am not the same man who has such a problem, and the husbands of celebrities are all like this. What’s more, I am a woman’s husband, why do I have to change it in a hurry?! In normal days, it is good to have me at home. When I am on a business trip, everything will be more arbitrary. Socks can be served on the table, chopsticks can be thrown all over the floor, and the pot may not be washed once a meal, one bowl at a time is used up. Without my wife’s nagging, my husband is really liberated! Every day I shouted and sang: The sky above the liberated zone is a bright day, and the people in the liberated areas like it very much. When I came back from a business trip, I was so angry that when I saw the ruins and the house was full of mess, I missed them separately. The love of returning became the smoke bomb of the war. Since seeing Zhang Xiaoxian’s “You are not bored without me”, my husband’s mouth is still tough, but his actions have changed. When I return from a business trip, my family is no longer as messy as before when I was on a business trip. Although there are still many unsatisfactory places, it can be seen that my husband is doing his best and he misses his wife when he is not at home. I suddenly realized that my husband, like Zhang Xiaoxian’s husband, was also bored, annoyed and missed when there was no wife nagging! Therefore, being a wife might as well remind her husband like Zhang Xiaoxian: without me, no one will ask you again: where have you been? Maybe you will feel bored. No one will nag you, you will not get used to it. No one will lose his temper with you any more, and you will feel that your life is peaceful. No one coquetry you any more, you may feel that you lack something. No one is crying in front of you, you will feel that you are not important. No one will scold you for spending money indiscriminately, and you will feel that spending money to buy things is not exciting enough. No one jumped on you and said: Kiss Me! You will lose your vitality. No one will argue with you about the bathroom again, and you will not be happy enough. No one wants you to remember her birthday any more, and you will feel that your good memory is wasted. No one told you: After work, the company picked me up. After work every day, where can you go? No one wants you to listen to her mind any more, you will feel a little lost. No one is waiting for you at home, you will feel like a hotel. (Zhang Xiaoxian, “you are not bored without me”) in fact, whether it is love or marriage, it is true that men and women can come together. It is fate, and it is ninety-nine times of previous life, in exchange for the short time of this life. Each of us should learn to cherish and cherish what we once had. Some people say that love is the strongest and can experience countless storms. Others say that love is the most vulnerable, he could not bear any trouble. Sometimes just a casual word might hurt the foundation of love, which would wither and wither the luxuriant flower of love. Therefore, no matter men or women, we should learn to cherish love and love marriage, just like loving our own eyes. The key is that many married men and women, regard marriage as a safe deposit box for love and love as a ticket without return. In fact, love, like other things, has life. Therefore, smart people can feel the growth of love, while stupid people can never see any sign before love dies. One time it falls ill, Withers until death. Therefore, to be a woman, one must learn tolerance and tolerance. Therefore, to be a man, one must learn to understand and care. Therefore, whether you are a man or a woman, you must know to cherish love and love marriage. Although Zhang Xiaoxian’s “You are not bored without me” seems to be defending a woman on the surface, you can still feel her kindness between the lines: remind you to remind me, remind men to remind women, sometimes everything, sometimes love, every one of us should learn to cherish. If you haven’t seen Zhang Xiaoxian’s article “you are not bored without me”, just look at my little article. Maybe I didn’t speak clearly about Zhang Xiaoxian, and I didn’t speak well about Zhang Xiaoxian, but like Zhang Xiaoxian, I also hope that all wives in the world can tolerate their husbands, and all husbands can understand their wives and all marriages in the world can be happy. Marriage is a beautiful world only when both husband and wife give all their love.

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