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Love yourself or love him

Some people often advise female friends: “Women should be nice to themselves”, “Women should know how to invest in themselves”, “Women should know how to love themselves, and others will love you 」…, these are all right! It also makes sense! But… is it absolute? In the same theory, what is the difference between men and women? How many people know how to love their own men very much, because they love themselves so much that they don’t care about hurting the women who love them. I think there is such a theory, purely because most women encounter the love thing, it is easy to faint, especially the smarter woman. Xiao Xin is a new person who has just emerged from the society. He has been dating with his boyfriend Bai since he was in college. His boyfriend continues to study, while Xiao Xin enters social work. Because Xiaoxin had an economic foundation, she paid for most dates. At first, Bai was very uncomfortable and always felt that boys should pay for dates, this kind of situation makes Bo Jun, a little big man, always feel that he is a soft-footed guy! After continuous communication between Xiaoxin and Bai Jun, “yours is mine, mine is yours, and the future is still very long. If two people keep going, you shouldn’t care about it like this.” Bai Jun gradually let go, but he secretly swore that he would give the best to Xiao Xin in the future. Of course, Bai is not a person who is greedy for small profits, has changed his mind, and has lost his mind. Two years after his graduation, he entered the auditorium. In a similar situation, Koli is not so lucky. Keli is a girl with strong personality, and her excellent performance in the workplace continues to be promoted. Her boyfriend Xiao Zu is a salesman of real estate. The difference between their salaries is very different, however, Xiao Zu always complained that the real estate was sluggish and the competition was fierce, so that he could not play a role. Keli understood Xiao Zu’s ideas, and also felt distressed that he had no talent and was hard to stretch out. Therefore, she tried her best to meet Xiao Zu’s needs in all aspects, including economic needs. Xiao Zu often asked Ke Li for money by reason to expand her business, and Ke Li also asked Xiao Zu for it until he accidentally found out that Xiao Zu used her money to invite her colleagues to dinner and sing, they even privately invited other female friends to travel alone. At the beginning, Ke Li always forgiven Xiao Zu’s apology and begging. Until repeated mistakes, Ke Li suddenly woke up. What she wanted was a person who could take care of her, letting her entrust a reliable partner for life is not a parasite that needs her to take care of and care for. Ke Li resolutely ended this five-year relationship. Why do similar situations have different results? We can blame Corey’s bad luck! It can also be said that Xiao Zu’s character is poor! These two women seem to love each other Biai themselves more, but the result is bipolar. Xiao Xin in the above story, we will also say that she is stupid, she is stupid, and she only knows how to love others and does not know how to love herself? However, if you can observe and experience more attentively at ordinary times, you should be able to see some clues from the details of life. I am afraid that most female friends immersed in love are blind. A few years ago, the news media in Taiwan reported the stories of Shihao and Shiya. Shihao and Shiya were a 7-year-old sister who fell in love with each other. For more than three months, Shiya found that he suffered from breast cancer, originally, Shiya was worried that Shihao would almost give up this relationship, but Shihao would never give up. She even shaved her head with Shiya during chemotherapy. The real feelings condensed in a short period of time warmed everyone’s heart, how lucky are you to meet someone who really loves you? It is important to invest in yourself and love yourself, but it seems that no matter how much you love yourself, a person who will not give love to others is not qualified to get others’ true love for himself. Love is selfless giving and dedication, which should not be measured by benefits, or who is more and who is less? After all, a good man is hard to find, we should all cherish the happiness in front of us.

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