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Hug for one minute every day

Perhaps it is because of middle age that my husband and I are very busy working and living. There are old people, old people are sick, need to take care of; There are small ones, small ones are still small, food, housing, transportation, school counseling have to worry about. When working in the unit, the experience theory is also regarded as the backbone. There are many and complicated things. The key is that everything cannot be well content. In all cases, it is not smooth, and Pepsi is not smooth. It is inevitable to be upset and smoke. When I got home, the couple kept complaining to each other. He thought I didn’t take care of him very well. I blamed him for loving me too little. Naturally, the ups and downs in life became a common occurrence. At this moment, I saw the article “hold me for a minute every day”: it is said that the couple, because the child, because of the busy life, often forget to communicate feelings, there is a kind of crisis lurking in life, the wife first felt that one day, the wife solemnly demanded to her husband: hold me for a minute every day., the husband looked at his wife, smiled and said: is it necessary? My wife said: I put forward this request, which shows that it is very necessary. If you issue this question, it shows that it is more necessary. The husband said: Love is in my heart, why should I express it. The wife said: if you didn’t express it, we wouldn’t get married. To this end, the two also made a fuss. In order to calm down, the husband reluctantly hugged his wife. The husband joked that his wife was a vain guy, but his wife said that every woman would be vain for love. From then on, the daily hug between husband and wife became a compulsory course. Until later, when his wife went out to study, her husband took the initiative to change the hug into a greeting call every day, which continued. Although the article is not written, I can still feel between the lines that with the greetings from my husband, my wife’s hard study and life will be very sweet. Looking at it, I couldn’t stop crying. Think about it carefully. Isn’t that what my husband and I need for each other? It’s just that we turn our desire for this emotion into a daily complaint. I am busy with work and have a lot of worries, don’t I need more care and understanding from each other? Thinking like this, I immediately decided to learn from that wife and ask her husband for a hug! There are many things in life, which are easy to say and difficult to do. Although my husband and I have been in love freely to get married and have children for two or ten years, we have made promises and fallen in love with each other. But after all, we are no longer young, nor are we seventy-eight or twenty-seven-eight, but thirty-seven-eight. Don’t say anything, we are all red in the face when we think about it. What should I do? What should I do? I have been disturbed excitedly by this matter. One day after dinner, as usual, the husband held the newspaper again and began to read with relish. At this moment, I suddenly pressed the magazine with that article on it in the newspaper he was reading and recommended an article to you! Look at me blushing, a kind of affectation, my husband reluctantly picked me up. I was not too embarrassed to stand beside him, and hurriedly hid in the kitchen with a blushed face and pretended to wash the dishes. After stopping for about ten minutes, the husband also blushed into the kitchen. I smiled and said: how is the article written? But the husband answered indiscriminately: Do you also lack?! I said: It is my feeling that there is no shortage, and whether it is given or not is your freedom. I didn’t wait for my husband to react, and then I said: why, don’t you want to give it? The husband’s face is more red, just give it if you need it! A helpless image. Then start tomorrow! I have a relief. Why wait for tomorrow? Start now! As I said, my husband’s hands were around me. Although the words are not allowed, in fact, a kind of warmth that has never been seen before is rippling in my heart. The next day after the hug, I was still angry because of some trivial matters. My anger turned into a nagging smoke bomb, and my family began to smoke again and the war was on the verge. At this moment, my husband smiled and stretched out his arms to me: hug, hug! I couldn’t help hugging me up. How well did the ending of holding me for one minute and two minutes say? If you are used to running love day by day like you are used to losing love day by day, then, the love in our palm and chest will never be cold. Indeed, because of work and life, in our daily complexity, love is the easiest thing for us to slack off, and love is also the most careless thing to manage. We always feel that love has been buried in the soil, it should be a ivy tree, and it will not fade for a million years. In fact, love is a very delicate flower no matter how long it is, and she needs us to irrigate and take care of it frequently. Give it wind, give it water, give it sunshine and air. Only in this way can the flowers of love always bloom and become fresh, and the fruits of love can be sweet. Not only we, but all lovers in the world should not only learn to have love, but also care carefully and manage love patiently. Only in this way, love will not grow old with time.

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